Monday, October 27, 2008

Keller/Prentice September 27, 2008 – Kona, Hawaii

What happens in Vegas sometimes leaves Vegas


I’ve been a bit remiss in blogging lately mostly because I went on vacation for a week and came back to a bees nest at work. I have my head mostly above water now so I can catch up on the rest of my life – including the sleep I lost the three weeks after my vacation.

My parents and I spent at week on The Big Island for vacation and to celebrate the marriage of my lifelong best friend, Erin Prentice, to some guy named Daniel Keller. OK OK so he is great, I ADORE him and he really is already part of the family but I still have to be my normal protective self. That doesn’t go away.

The first three days I told myself were strictly vacation. I did very little wedding stuff but instead enjoyed being in Hawaii. On Monday we went on a kayaking trip where we snorkeled and jumped off a 30 foot cliff.



Tuesday was spent seeing a bit more of the island via helicopter – with no doors thank you.


Me and Crazy George – our pilot


We went over the volcano and got to see amazing views of the flowing lava. It was amazingly beautiful. I asked our pilot if there is any type of state or federal assistance if your house is taken out by the lava flow on the Big Island. He informed me that there is not, and in fact, you can’t even buy Volcano insurance. This is why there are many homes built on the lava plains. The people own that land and just because their houses were burned to a crisp one time it doesn’t mean they don’t still own the land so they rebuild. It’s crazy.







We also went into the Thurston Lava Tube which wasn't as great as Ape Caves but was still pretty interesting and we went to the top of the volcanoe where you can see steam coming out of the crater. It's sort of like being in Land of the Lost - only without the Dinasours.





We also went to an incredible dinner at Mauni Lana which was to celebrate my mom and Erin’s dad’s great years with their company. I’m glad I got to tag along.


On Wednesday I slept in the hammock on the beach for as long as Daniel’s dad would let me.
Then Erin, Daniel, Joey and Tiffany (the pastor and his wife – all the way from England and some of my favorite people I have ever met) and I went shopping in Kahulia-Kona. It was fun to get to see all the amazing local fruit in the farmer’s market. We definitely took advantage of that later in the week as you shall see. Emily (another bridesmaid) flew in from Boston that evening and in my mind the wedding officially began.

On Thursday Emily, Erin, Juli and I went to the Hilton and swam with the dolphins. It was a very neat experience to get to be that up close and personal with such neat animals and the Hilton was GORGEOUS. We took advantage of being there and used the pool for a few hours before heading back for our nail appointments.






After that, my mom, dad and I went to a luau. I ran into Jamie, a friend from college who I hadn’t seen since 2000 and we enjoyed a very intimate luau. It was a lot of fun to have so much time with my parents. It isn’t very often we get a chance to vacation with our parents as adults. I have no idea if that will happen again so I enjoyed every moment.



On Friday the wedding got into full swing. We started decorating for the rehearsal dinner which was in front of the “cottage” and the tent went up in front of the big house. Erin, Emily, Kathy and I went to the farmers market and bought all kinds of flowers for the center pieces and the wedding site. Juli did an amazing job with decorating. I was very glad there were people like her around because I’m useless where that is concerned.








The rehearsal was relaxed and fun and there was a live band and BBQ for the rehearsal dinner. It was a true precursor to the fun that was ahead.







On Saturday morning Emily, Erin and I got up and picked up Mira (the other bridesmaid) from the house where she was staying and then went back to the big house to have a breakfast of tropical fruit and mimosas. The fruit was a lot of fun because much of it none of us had ever tried before. People were buzzing around the house constantly getting things ready and the wedding site looked absolutely beautiful by the time we left to get our hair done.



The ladies at the salon were great. They took apart their potted flower to have flowers to put in our hair and we laughed and enjoyed the time of just sitting and getting ready for the evening.




Saturday night brought the wedding. Erin was of course beautiful and Daniel was thrilled. I don’t think he left her side for more than about two seconds the whole night. We all had a blast and danced until the rules required the DJ to shut down. At one point I looked across the lawn and my mom was dancing to Flo Rida “Low”. I almost wet my pants laughing.






It was a great time and I really couldn’t ask for a better husband for Erin. There haven’t been many men in her life that I approved of so for Daniel to make the grade is saying something. I wish them the best and know God is going to bless their lives together as husband and wife. I’m looking forward to watching them grow as a couple and learn what it is like to be married.

And to think – it all started in Vegas.

Have No Fear

My pastor is preaching a wonderful sermon series right now. It is super convicting and practical and true to life today, as his sermons often are. Yesterday he preached about hearing God and then submitting to what you hear. I found myself thinking last night about my prayer life and why sometimes I technically avoid it.

I’m currently considering a significant life change that is pretty much out of my control at this point. I was thinking about what it would mean to start praying diligently about it. I’ve been praying about it but sort of in a sheepish way. I realized the reason I have been hesitant to really pray, like sweating blood type of prayer, is because if I do, then I have to turn it over to God. If the door opens, I’ll know I have to walk through it because it is his plan for me. That kind of submission and letting go of “my” plans is awfully scary. It would mean potentially selling my house and moving who knows where. It means potentially losing the safety net of familiarity and not having all of my plans fulfilled, like getting a puppy in the Spring.

On my way home last night I was talking to Evan and I said something to him that I didn’t realize I had really thought until the words came out of my mouth. I told him that if God opens that door even though it might be sort of scary at first, I’ll know I will be ok because it will be God’s plan and he’ll be there with me. One of the things Pastor Dudley said last night was that often times the voice of God tells us things that seem so crazy that it couldn’t have possibly come from our own thoughts. Seeing as this potential change is such a thing for me (change is NOT my deal) I suppose it means I need to listen and realize it just might be God’s nudging. Anyway, I guess the point of all of this is that I need to stop worrying about what it will be like if it happens and instead be excited for the adventure I might find God sending me on.

Friday, October 03, 2008

No words necessary

For those of you who know Erin and I this one needs no description except to say: wedding week, Walmart, laughing so hard you pee.